I Used To Be Shy With Women In The Past

June 19, 2011 | Author: Alex Decoto | Posted in Dating

Do you want to know what happened to me when I was young? I used to be very shy with women and I am going to tell you more about that. I hope my story will help you. I am not going to guarantee you anything. But my story should shed some light on all you shy guys out there. I hope that you will do something about your shyness. I did something about my shyness and I am happy now. I want you to do the same.

Let me tell you just how shy I was int he past. You may think that I was afraid of approaching women that I didn’t know. Well, this is not the case. I was even too nervous to speak to girls that I knew. When I heard that girls were going out with us boys, I would simply not go out. If girls were next to me, I wouldn’t open my mouth until they were gone. I could not speak to women and I could not interact with them in any way because of such discomfort.

I only dreamed about women. I used to have these everyday fantasizes in which I would rescue women and they would somehow give themselves to me. I was fantasizing about women so much because I couldn’t have them in real life. Other guys in school had women, but I didn’t. I wasn’t the only loser. But I was almost one of the biggest losers. I couldn’t even speak to women (let alone kiss them).

Here is what I used to think back then. I used to think that it would all change with time. I thought that I would be normal by the age of 18. Well, you can probably guess what happened. I did not change. I did not change just like that. I only started changing when I made the commitment to change. Otherwise, I would have remained the same (maybe even worse). Change needs to be initiated.

You now know what you need to do. You need to be the initiator. Learn from my story.

Can I do something else for you? Here are some funny pick up lines. But that won’t help you much. Work on your confidence. You will become less shy as you become more confident.

Author: Alex Decoto

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