Avoiding A Love Break Up

May 14, 2011 | Author: Eidorian Tan | Posted in Divorce

You know how painful a love break up can be if you’ve ever been through one. And as you look back at the relationship, you can spot all the signs that you never saw before that lead up to the break up.

If you’ll remember those signs and keep them in mind, they can help you prevent a break up in the future. And they can also help you get back together after a split.

One sure sign of impending love break up is the lack of physical contact. This doesn’t just mean sex. If your partner suddenly stops having an interest in sex, that’s a good sign that a break up is coming.

But a natural flow in a relationship has times when there’s lots of sex and other times there’s not much. This is just a natural rhythm.

A love break up is probably on the horizon though, if your partner stops holding your hand for no apparent reason. Or he or she stops putting an arm over your shoulder at the movies or in public when he or she always did it before.

Any sudden changes like not touching you much outside the bedroom when your partner was always very affectionate before could signal problems.

If it goes beyond not touching to the person actually becoming uncomfortable at your touch, then you definitely need to have a conversation with your partner about what’s going on.

Many things cause a person not to want to be touched at any given moment though, so don’t assume becaused they flinched when you touched them that your about to go through a love break up.

Sometimes the person is thinking of something deep and then you suddenly touch him and so the tendency he may be surprised and shocked with such touch. A touch may indicate a time for sex, or if not you just want to be affectionate or intimate.

If your partner moves away form your touch, it only means that he is not interested to be intimate with you this time. But it does not simply means that love break up is awaiting.

Perhaps your partner just doesn’t feel well. Not all changes in behavior signal an impending love break up or that anything is wrong with the relationship. You just have to observe closely for a time to determine if the behavior is occasional, brought on during certain times, or if its becoming a habitual part of the persons make up.

If your catching you partner in lies, even small, harmless ones,it could be a sign of trouble, too. If a lie is small and harmless, after all, why even tell it? Where there is one small lie, larger and more damaging lies can grow.

Don’t become convinced it’d a love breakup right away though. People lie about many small things that aren’t bad, like a surprise party or a reunion. Your partner may just be trying to keep a fun and harmless secret like that, it doesn’t mean their scheming about a love break up.

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Author: Eidorian Tan

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